Why You’re Here

You want your life to move forward again. You want to feel stronger, clearer, and more in control.
This page tells you why I do this work and why I’m right here with you.

Who I Am

I teach men how to rebuild their body and mind using simple structure, steady training, and clear thinking.
I use combat sports, strength work, and mindset tools to help you get back on track.
Nothing extreme. Nothing built on hype.
Just the things that work in real life.

I’m not a guru. I’m a guy who’s done the work, fallen off, and done the work again.

What I Believe

These ideas shape everything I teach:

  • Progress comes from small actions practiced daily.

  • Fitness doesn’t need to be complicated to be effective.

  • Combat sports sharpen confidence and mental control.

  • Structure builds discipline.

  • Men need challenge and support, not judgment.

  • Starting over is normal, not a sign of failure.

The Road I Took

My life has been a series of resets. I grew up working early. I served in the Army for five years, including time as an Infantry Squad Leader. That period built discipline, leadership, and a strong sense of responsibility.

After the military, I worked in tech, coaching, and running dojos. I built programs, grew gyms, and trained men in jiu jitsu and muay thai for years.

But I also took hits.
I struggled with drinking. I gained weight. I dealt with depression and doubt. I lost sight in one eye. I carried the stress of family problems and long periods of feeling disconnected from the life I wanted.

My confidence dropped. My discipline slipped. I felt like I was watching myself fall apart in slow motion.

The reset didn’t come from a dramatic breakthrough. It came from simple steps: walking, lifting again, getting back on the mat, cleaning up my food, cutting alcohol, and building routines that fit my real life.
Small steps, done over and over.

That slow climb back is where everything changed.

Why This Site Exists

I know what it feels like to lose momentum.
I know how hard it is to start again when you feel like you’re supposed to already be further along.

Tom Short Online exists to give you a place to regroup and move forward.
A place with clear guidance and no pressure.
A place where you’re not expected to be perfect.

I built this site for men who are rebuilding, because I’m rebuilding too.

What You’ll Find Here

Everything here is designed to help you gain traction:

  • Weekly Mat Chats

  • Training breakdowns

  • Simple routines

  • Mindset tools

  • Nutrition basics that don’t require extremes

  • Reset strategies for rough weeks

  • Clear steps for returning to combat sports

  • A soft path toward the Reforged Combat Club if you want deeper support

You get honest guidance you can use the same day you read it.

How I Work

My approach is straightforward:

  • Speak plainly

  • Keep things practical

  • Build consistency before intensity

  • Focus on your real life, not fantasy results

  • Encourage action without pressure

  • Treat every reset as a fresh start, not a setback

I’m not here to impress you. I’m here to help you move.

Your Next Step

You’ve got a few simple ways to plug in:

  • Join The Recon Report

  • Watch a Mat Chat

  • Start a small routine today

  • Read the latest article

  • Learn more about the Reforged Combat Club if you want structure and community

Choose one and move.

You’re not behind. You’re rebuilding.

I’m glad you’re here.

Let’s move forward.